Alford Lake Camp

Fading light dims the sight
and a star gems the sky, gleaming bright
From afar drawing nigh,
Falls the night.

Day is done, gone the sun
From the lakes, from the hills, from the skies
All is well, safely rest;
God is nigh.

Then goodnight, peaceful night;
Till the light of dawn shineth bright.
God is near, do not fear,
Friend, Goodnight.

“Taps” – Composed by US Union Army Brigadier General Daniel Butterfield, July 1862.  Lyrics by Horace Lorenzo Trim

Alford Lake Campers will most likely recognize Verse II of the lyrics to “Taps”.  ALCers conclude our Sunday evening gathering (“Logs”) by standing together, quietly, facing the lake to sing Taps.  Likewise, every night Taps is played on the bugle to call for “lights out” at camp, marking another day shared at Alford Lake Camp.

These beautiful words and haunting notes have been calling us safely to sleep for over 103 years.  It is part of our unchanging traditions and values that make Alford Lake Camp such a meaningful place for young women.

Memorial Day in America is a time for reflection.  Time to remember and honor the memory of our service men and women who have died in service for our country.  With great respect and appreciation for their sacrifice, we will continue to pray and work for peace in our world.

Sue McMullan, Director
Betsy Brayley, Assistant Director

Okay, we admit that our camp shorts are not quite stylish!! We are talking about our “Blueberry Blues” or “camp clothing”.  Alford Lake Camp has official clothing for our campers, counselors and staff.  And we all wear them every day!  The practical reason is simple: camp is a busy and active place and we know these shorts and t-shirts will hold up day in and day out.  The more subtle but equally important reason is the sense of community we create when we eliminate fashion trends and perceived “status” of certain brands and/or logos.  We are a community that embraces WHO we are and not WHAT we have. Living together, playing together and sharing experiences together is easier when we focus on what we all have in common.  Trust us, our campers and staff quickly embrace the simplicity of KNOWING what they are going to wear everyday.. ALC shorts, ALC shirt and if it is a chilly morning:  an ALC sweatshirt!!!  Camp clothing is part of our history, part of our commitment to the values that really matter and make camp life simpler and more fun for everyone.

Thank you for supporting a camp that builds a sense of unity and that stands for the importance of each individual!  Get ready to put on those Blueberry Blues and enjoy another summer of fun on the shores of Alford Lake!

Warmly,

Sue McMullan, Director
Betsy Brayley, Assistant Director

Guest Blog by Kim Libby

There are mornings at Alford Lake when the water is glass-flat, and the hills reflected on the lake’s surface appear every bit as clear as they do above the waterline.  There are mornings when the wind plucks at the top of the water and lifts it up into small waves.  And there are mornings where a light gray fog does not burn away with the dawn but stays crouched on top of the lake, and when we come down from breakfast to canoe or kayak or swim, we can enjoy the last minutes of the mist

It was on one of these mist-covered mornings that a group of campers and I (their counselor) paddled into the nearby cove beside the McMullan’s Hut.  Our colorful little line of boats stood out against the deep greens and browns of a Maine summer cove.  For long minutes, we drifted and talked softly, discovering things as we went, like how the stems of water plants feel glossy or how turtles blend in with the logs and rocks on which they rest.  Moving along the outer edge of the cove, we felt as though we were sliding through the forest, low to the ground and without the disruption of our own footsteps.  On the far side, opposite Mrs. M’s home, we came across something extraordinary in a cleared-out spot of land: two large, smooth, perfectly shaped ovals the color of stone.  Based on the voice and behavior of a nearby loon, it did not take us long to realize to whom these eggs belonged.  We had discovered the eggs of the loon.  Carefully, respectfully, we backed away.  We took only our story away with us (“Guess what we saw…,” we’d begin.) and vowed to protect the precious space of the mother loon.

While I was never a camper at Alford Lake, I was fortunate to have spent a great deal of my childhood outdoors.  I played…a lot.  With brothers and cousins and friends, I ran and swam and explored and discovered things and made up stories to explain all the things I’d seen.  There was so much land to cover, so much to figure out, and so much of it was just plain mysterious.

I miss the mystery of play, and I fear that while our culture has given us much (speed, information, access, resources, lots Facebook friends), it has taken away some of the mystery that is always part of direct, tangible experience.

At camp, there was much that I did not know.  I could not predict how the lake would appear on a given morning or how it would change throughout the day.  I did not know what the weather would bring and relied on the shape and color of the clouds and the direction of the wind rather than on “Weather.com.”  I could not always tell my campers the name or source of all the things we saw and heard, and yet, I did not feel the need to “Google” them or search for them on “Wikipedia.”  It was sometimes just enough to hear and to see.  To wonder.

The outdoor living of camp requires full participation in the world, but more importantly, camp relationships are built on direct engagement.  When my campers and I conversed with one another, we did not exchange words on a screen, alternating “Send” and “Reply.”  Our voices made a sound.  Our friendships were “Confirmed” not by the quick click of a moving arrow but through meaningful gestures like smiles or expressions of concern made by the movements of our faces rather than the typing of emoticons.  During tent time, we wrote letters on actual paper and with actual pens and sent them miles beyond ALC.  We dropped them in the mailbox and felt the exhilaration of mailing thoughts that are irretrievable, that cannot be called up and reread in a “Sent” folder.  Our words were sent with faith and after a patient time, we received other words back, all wrapped up in paper and delightfully sealed.  And what gifts, these words.   What gifts.

Camp cultivates the mystery of play.  The mystery of the full, direct experience.  I have heard that camping has become “countercultural.”  I disagree; I think camp does not work “against” culture as much as it works to protect it.  Camp represents a distillation of the most vital qualities of our culture, the essence of what cannot and should not ever be sacrificed for the sake of speed and convenience.

By Barb Sullivan, ALC Parent

I am preparing for summer #4 for my daughter and I am happy to share a few things I have learned in the annual process of preparing her for camp:

1. Make a copy of the ALC the packing list and carry it with you… mark it off as you shop for items.  Remember if you are ordering from MCO online that shipping takes time and you want to have everything at home, ready to pack by early June.
2. Sew on those name tapes… okay, I have my local dry cleaner do it…but it is really important…. don’t think your child is going to be the only one with a red raincoat!  Water bottles, flashlights, hairbrushes, etc. are best labeled with a black Sharpie.
3. Buy stamps & print address labels of family and friends that your camper may wish to write to while she is at camp. The easier it is for them to write… the more likely it will be that you will get letters from your happy, busy camper!
4. Send a couple pictures of family and friends with your daughter.  Pack a couple push pins for her to tack these images up in her tent.  It is how ALC campers decorate/personalize their spaces.
5. When packing your child’s trunk:  remember to roll socks & underwear and place them in rain-boots, hiking boots, etc.  It really saves space!  Place most of the bulky items in her day pack (allowed on the camp bus) such as footwear, flashlights, etc. and use the trunk for uniforms, towels, etc.  I have used ‘space saver’ bags — the kind that you vacuum out the air — works like a charm!!
6. Fun pajamas are awesome… lots of evening activities are in “evening attire,” meaning the campers and counselors wear their pajamas to watch plays, etc.  Fun, fun, fun
7. Remind family and friends that there is a no-exceptions NO PACKAGE policy… it will only make these special and kind people feel sad if they spend time and money to send treats only to have them returned, unopened.
8. Share summer newsletters and photos with extended family through your Campminder account so they can stay connected too!!
9. Don’t send too many extras… too many books, stuffed animals, sets of stationery, card games, etc. It will only make it overwhelming for your camper to keep her things organized.
10. If you have ANY questions… call camp!! They can help you, give you advice and help you feel ready for the summer.  The phone number is 207-799-3005

If you have any other questions about camp, post them here and I will do my best to give you the right answer, best advice or point you in the direction of those who can help!

Thanks and Happy Packing!

Barb Sullivan
ALC Alum, Parent and Staff Member

By Barb Sullivan, ALC Parent

I was nervous.  I was hopeful.  I was excited.  Sending my little girl, age 9, to her first summer at Alford Lake Camp.  I knew it was going to be a wonderful experience for her because I had been a camper at Alford Lake in the 1970s.  Simply stated:  I loved camp!  But, I was also a little worried that she might not love it.  She might not embrace it as I did.

So, as the ALC bus pulled away from that busy NYC street, I had a few tears in my eyes.  And then I waited for the letters to arrive in my mailbox…. oooh, it felt like years before that first BRIEF note arrived.  She liked her tent, her counselor was from New Jersey, she was working on a project in Art and she missed me.  I read, and re-read, that letter over and over.  I wondered if she was really happy.  I couldn’t know.  I had to trust.  I had to trust that she was having fun, she was making new friends, she was growing and experiencing new things.  Trust was the key.  I trusted my decision to choose a residential camp experience for my daughter.  I trusted that the Directors were leading a safe and fun camp community and I trusted that she was well cared for by a dedicated counseling staff.  Equally important I trusted that my daughter was ready for this new experience in her life.

My trust was rewarded three and half weeks later when I picked up my daughter at Alford Lake Camp.  Here, running into my arms, was my happy daughter.  Her eyes alive with pride as she showed me HER tent, introduced me to HER counselor, showed me around HER camp!  She looked older, bolder and more confident than I had remembered her in those weeks leading up to camp.  She was happy and, TRUST me, I was happy too.  All the trust I had in her and in camp has made a lasting impression on my daughter.  She sensed that I trusted she would be able to navigate camp life without me and thus, she was able to believe in her self.  I learned I must give her that gift.  This has been the most important and lasting impact of camp life for my daughter.

To all families preparing to send your daughters to camp, I urge you to trust in your decision to choose Alford Lake Camp.  It is normal to be excited and nervous at the same time.  But, I can honestly say, it will be an amazing experience for your child — and for you!

Barb Sullivan
ALC Alum & ALC Parent

Hello ALC Parents!

My name is Barb (Leahey) Sullivan and I have a long connection to Alford Lake Camp.  My first summers were spent at Camp Chewonki where my father was Head Counselor.  I arrived for my first summer there when I was THREE DAYS OLD!!  I spent eight magical summers at Camp Chewonki as a staff child but my heart and mind were focused on when I would FINALLY be old enough to follow my older sister (Ann-Marie Leahey) to become a camper at ALC.  I spent four wonderful summers at Alford Lake in the 1970s.  The days I spent at ALC are some of the happiest memories of my childhood.

As soon as my daughter was born, I started counting the years until she could have her first summer at ALC.  Her first summer was Session I in 2007 and I was introduced to the reality of being a camp parent:  wading through camp forms, figuring out transportation to and from camp, worrying about homesickness and hoping that her summer would be magical, etc., etc., etc.   Reconnecting with camp, I was invited to join the summer office staff and have spent the last two summers working at ALC and enjoying being both a camp parent and camp staff member.

In the summer office, I have had the opportunity to speak with numerous families.  These interactions are the highlight of my work at camp.  I have often thought that there should be a forum for us to share insights, experiences, tips and ideas.  So, with Sue McMullan’s support, I am beginning an ALC parent blog.  I hope to answer frequently asked questions (FAQs) and explore topics that might be on your minds as you prepare to send your camper to ALC.

Thanks for your continued support of ALC. I know you agree with me that it truly is a MAGICAL place!!

Barb Sullivan
Virginia Beach, Virginia
ALC Alum, Parent and Summer Staff Member

• …that your daughter is returning from school more and more stressed at the end of her day?
• …that she is spending too much time watching television or on Facebook?
• …that she may be more anxious about her friendships and life in general?
• …that your daughter wishes she were better at soccer, tennis, or sailing?

And are YOU concerned about how to fill her unstructured moments when you have other commitments?  There is a solution! 

ALC is a place where your daughter can….

• * Spend time being unplugged.
• * Build life-long friendships.
• * Discover and build on her strengths that will compliment future successes.

All of this is possible through the challenge and adventure of an Alford Lake Camp summer experience!

Imagine all of the young women who have been campers at Alford Lake Camp – so many we put the number in the tens of thousands… Imagine them as mothers, grandmothers, sisters, aunts, cousins, wives, role models, colleagues and friends!!  Imagine the gift of the Alford Lake Camp experience they have shared with the world.  The lessons and values they honed during their summers at camp have made a difference in so many ways.  Imagine the amazing impact these legions of women have had on their families, their communities, their places of work and worship.  In ways both big and small they have shared their confidence, character, work ethic and can-do-spirit with the world!

We know the value of camp is multi-layered.  Campers gain important skills and feelings of confidence and self-awareness through experiences that last a lifetime. Living in community, challenging themselves to try new things, and meeting people from all around the globe are just a few of the life-changing experiences that help our campers gain the skills to confidently navigate school, work and family life.  Alford Lake Campers have had, for generations, amazing role models in the counselors and staff who have made a lasting impact on their lives.  Camp life has inspired young women to reach for their goals, believe in themselves and trust in a community that stands for unchanging values.

Thank you, women of ALC, for 104 years of camp!  Thank you for making camp come alive all over the globe through your leadership, involvement and dedication to the experiences you had on the shores of Alford Lake.  To all of you who are mothers, we wish you a “Happy Mother’s Day”.  And to all of you, caretakers of the spirit of Alford Lake Camp, “Thank you!”

Warmly,

Sue McMullan, Director
Betsy Brayley, Assistant Director